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Purging to be free...

This weekend I am in the process of purging my closets, getting rid of possessions that have not seen the light of day in years. With them going are other items I've had for years but haven't been able to utilize. The process of decluttering my life is freeing.

As I write this I am looking at a mountain of clothing on my floor, wondering why I even had those items in the first place.

Why do we hold on to possessions that offer nothing to us? The same can be said for people in our lives, why do we hold on to friendships that often only serve to cause us pain and disappointment? Why do we not listen to that inner voice telling us the only reason they are around is to watch and hope you fall?

I guess I am the stage in my life where I no longer want to be weighed down by things nor people. I will always hold on to the true friends in my life, but no more to all the rest.

As I went through some of my closets something dawned on me. You see, over the last 3 decades I've treasur…

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